Hey…….At Least God Forgives

There might be a lot of bridges that you burned down behind you……Some people who were hurt, and who still hold grudges to this day…..Thank God he doesn’t hold a grudge.  There are people in this world who won’t forgive us for our past mistakes. We say we are sorry and try to make amends, but they just cannot forgive.

But out God knows out weaknesses and knows that we are not perfect.  He is quick to forgive, and help steer us back on the right path.

Here is a great excer[t from  Dr. Charles Stanley. He is on the television on Sundays.  Try to watch him this Sunday.

The church I grew up in could sum up much of its theology in one statement: “Thou shalt not . . .” I don’t recall hearing about a Father’s love or how to live the Christian life. What I learned was that a wrathful God would punish me if I didn’t follow all the rules. And there seemed to be rules for everything—including what I could read, what I could wear, and what I could do.

As a teenage boy, I spent a lot of time begging the Lord to forgive me for one foolish thing or another. And I carried a constant weight of guilt and worry around with me everywhere I went. I just couldn’t seem to be good enough. In truth, the rules were a burden to me, and since I thought God made them, He was a burden too.

In my young adult years, I learned that my perception of God was wrong. He is gracious and loving. The commandments that He gave were designed to keep us
safe and free from shame. But even when we do mess up, there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ (Rom. 8:1). That means He forgives our sin and “wipes out . . . transgressions,” remembering them no more (Is. 43:25). We may have to live with consequences but never with the weight of guilt.

God is not a burden. He is the burden-bearer (Ps. 68:19), who placed our sins on Jesus Christ, thereby relieving us of that heaviness. Don’t keep staggering under the load of guilt. Lay it down before a loving, gracious Lord who offers a yoke that is easy and light (Matt. 11:30).

We hope you are moving forward with your walk with God, and we comtinue to pray for all our readers. God Bless.

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Finding A Moral Compass

Here is some great advice we found on establishing a “moral compass” to help guide us through life. Sometimes we are confronted with temptations that are overwhelming at times, and a true test of our character.  If we don’t have an internal alarm system, we could end up in deep trouble. 

The conscience looks at thoughts and actions to determine if they are in line with one’s principles and standards. It is important to keep our internal alarm system well maintained so it will be trustworthy.

For our moral compass to sound at the right time and for the right reason, we must:

• Accept scripture as our standard for behavior. 2 Timothy 3:16 says, “All scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness.” If we choose to adopt our culture’s values, which are often at odds with the Lord’s, our conscience will be unreliable. Instead, we want our radar to alert us to the possibility of going off course.

• Align our thinking with the Lord’s. Romans 12:2 says to renew our minds. It is necessary and ongoing work to combat what this unbelieving world accepts as true and right. Our alarm system should help us identify ungodly ideas.

• Apply God’s Word to daily living. When our habits reflect godly values, our conscience will become more sensitive to what is right and wrong

In addition, it is essential that we rely on the Holy Spirit for understanding. Our conscience by itself is of some value, but it becomes indispensable when accompanied by the Spirit’s guidance (John 16:13).

The scriptures teach us how to live—in our thought life, conduct, and emotions (Gal. 5:16-23). As we make our standards align more closely with the Lord’s, our conscience will become increasingly trustworthy because it is based on what is important to our heavenly Father.

Here at Christian Help For Addiction Online we pray for your recovery and ability to withstand temptations. Try to get yourself an easy to read bible, and read some bible verses. It just might turn your life around.

Friends-We Use That Term Loosely

It’s interesting to hear people tell you how many “friends” they have. True, we as humans enjoy being surrounded by others who share the same common interests, but be careful who you label as a friend.

It’s easy for other people to be attracted to you when you have money, health and are essentially “drama” free. But watch what happens to these so called “friends” when your money runs out, your health deteriorates, or your life turns into shambles, and you need others for help to get through some difficult times.  It is during those difficult times, you will be able to determine who  your friends really are.

Now don’t get me wrong, there are some people that just run from stress and can’t cope with it in their own lives let alone yours. These people shouldn’t be condemned, but just seen for who they are. True, there are some so called “friends” that will take advantage of you, but for the most part, people just struggle with handling issues, especially when it involves others.

If you are struggling with an addiction, then you have to be extra “vigilant” with whom you call “friends” Let’s face it, someone caught in a vicious cycle of addiction might not be thinking to clearly, and might not have your best interests at heart.

If you are in recovery and hanging around some “friends” who are actively using, you are in dangerous territory.  Put these friends on the back burner until they get their lives together. Just tell them you still respect them as a person, but the temptation is far to great when being around them. If they don’t understand that, then you really have to question if they are a friend.

So be careful with the term “friend” A true friend will stand by you no matter what, and has only “your best interests” in mind. They are there for you when you are healthy and when you are sick. If they get the call at 3 in the morning  that you need help, they are there for you. They are supportive and quick to criticize you if you are engaging in “risky” behavior, (drinking/drugging) as a true friend should be concerned about your well-being.

Here at Christian Help For Addiction Online we pray that you are becoming stronger each and every day. We hope that you are actively seeking “God” by praying and reading your bible daily. Christ is the best friend you will ever have, as he is there 24/7 365 days a year, hearing your needs. I always tell folks to read the book of Psalms when they are struggling as it can be quite comforting.  Stay well, and God Bless…

These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.
John 16:33 (KJV)

Romans 8:38-39 #9 Bible Verse on Depression

For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord

Words Are Powerful

Words are powerful tools. Especially when you are under stress and tempted to say the wrong thing.

Words can build up or tear down. You and I cannot carelessly say whatever we want and then expect a quick apology to heal all wounds.

Even words spoken in haste can deeply hurt someone. Of course, not all messages we send are verbal. Facial expressions and body language can communicate acceptance or rejection, like or dislike, love or hate. Sometimes, simply our presence sends a powerful message.

What are you communicating through your words and actions? Make sure it’s a message that will please the Lord as well as lift up those around you.

Sometimes when others or ourselves are struggling with an addiction, we are under great stress. Our mental “acuity” really isn’t up to speed, as we are influenced by toxins (alcohol/drugs) in our bodies.

Be patient with others when they seem to make impulse comments. Sometimes it isn’t coming from the heart, but coming from a person whose thought patterns are being negatively influenced.

If you are that person who just seems to blurt out painful comments do an old trick that has worked for me. Say the comment to yourself in your own mind and ask yourself, “ok, if i say this, is someone going to be offended?”

If you are reasonably certain that the comment is full of love, then say it. If not, then keep it to yourself. Processing something in our own minds before we say it wil save us much grief. The old “think before we speak” mentality.

We at Christian Help For Addiction Online hope and pray that things are getting better for you and your family. Try to read the bible on a daily basis, it can do wonders for the troubled soul. God Bless….

 

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Surrendering Doesn’t Mean Giving Up!

 

There are some circumstances that may leave you feeling as if you don’t have a friend in the world.

However isolated you may feel, understand that you’re never alone. God is with you and He has a ministry to fulfill in your life. His primary reason for indwelling you is to live the life of Christ through you—helping you face every situation in a godly, victorious manner. He uses all of your heartaches and burdens to teach you about the love, wisdom, and power of God. He enables you to become the person God created you to be and to succeed in whatever God calls you to achieve.

Some addictions that we struggle with are truly overwhelming and attempting to remedy the situation on our own is impossible. But as the bible says, nothing is impossible with God.

Give your struggles over to the Lord. Surrender and say, “hey you know what God, I surrender, I can’t do this on my own. I need your help” and then wait for God to step in.  It might take some time, but that’s what faith is all about.

Hang in there. We are praying for all our friends who are struggling out there with the multitude of addictions. Don’t ever give up hope. Read the bible daily, think and visualise the new life that you have coming, and start to focus more on God. 

 

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Ever Feel Like A Victim?

A victim is someone who has been harmed

in some way, whether physically, financially,

vocationally, emotionally, or otherwise. Almost

all people are treated poorly at one time or

another. They may have done nothing to deserve

it. But some people never recover from the

mistreatment they experience.Whether or not

they label themselves as “victims,” they allow

hurtful experiences to permanently disrupt

their lives. They use negative incidents as

excuses for sinful or irresponsible behavior.

As believers, we don’t have to fall into this

destructive pattern.Why? Romans 8:28 says,

“We know that God causes all things to work

together for good to those who love God, to

those who are called according to His purpose.”

Our loving heavenly Father is in control of all

things. Instead of allowing personal tragedy to

devastate us, we can choose to allow God to

use it to mature us spiritually.

You might be struggling with an addiction right now. Be it an alcohol or drug addiction, or many of the hundreds of others. Don’t give up hope.. Sometimes it’s in the last hour of your despair that God shows up. You might be at your breaking point, but hold strong and pray. You really have to “surrender” and say, “Lord, I can’t do this on my own, I need you now”, and then wait and see how God steps in.

You could be on the threshold of a break through, hang in there and pray.. Give it over to God, and watch him work in your life. We are praying for you…God Bless

 

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Loneliness Can Be A Trigger

Loneliness is one of man’s most painful and feared emotions. Many people consider isolation, disconnectedness, and abandonment excruciating—especially during periods of crisis

During these difficult times, we sometimes “self medicate” with drugs or alcohol to ease the pain that loneliness brings. It becomes a vicious cycle, as our companion for life is then found in a bottle or other means.  An individual I knew for many years suddenly fell into the grips of loneliness. Detaching from his friends and family he started living an isolated life. Depression set in, and you could pretty much write the end of the story.

Don’t let yourself fall into that the trap of loneliness. Develop a resource of faithful, healthy friends, and lean on them in difficult times. If you don’t know where to look for such people, then try your local church one Sunday. Mingle after the service, and start throwing your name around. After a few weeks of attending, you should start to develop a few “Godly” contacts, that will be a wonderful resource.

Remember, even in painful circumstances, three truths are certain: Jesus stands with us; He strengthens us for whatever task God wants us to accomplish; and He will enable us to fulfill God’s purpose till our final breath. Be comforted and encouraged by these promises of the living Lord. God Bless…

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Keeping Life Simple

The world bombards us with messages that nourish feelings of inferiority. Happiness and satisfaction are promised if we will only drive the latest car, wear the newest styles, or build up those muscles while losing unsightly pounds. If we do not guard against the onslaught of commercialism, it will drive the truth of God from our minds, and we will pursue a fruitless search for adequacy and value.

So often we look at externals to prove to ourselves and others that we’re valuable. Or we think, If only I were better-looking, richer, or smarter, I would be accepted and esteemed. It’s not wise to let others’ opinions and standards determine our feelings about ourselves; the only accurate assessment of our worth comes from looking into the eyes of the One who loved us enough to die in our place.

Christ loves us just the way we are, whether we are rich or poor, addicted or not. We don’t have to impress others, or be influenced by their dysfunctional behavior. Read your bible this week. Start with the book of Psalms. It will help give you guidance and strength in difficult times. God bless…

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Prescription Meds And Addiction Risks

Hi everyone from Christian Help For Addiction Online,

A call from my neighbor the other night revealed that his brother-in-law was admitted into a drug rehab facility for treatment. I was a bit shocked, as I knew the guy, and he was what appeared to be a pretty “high functioning” individual. He held a good job and had a wife and a young child. Initially I was thinking the “hard stuff”, maybe even Heroin, but when I asked further, I found out he was hooked on “pain killer” medication, specifically…”Vicodin”

Initially I thought how did that happen, but now i realize that more  and more people are getting hooked with these type of prescription meds. Oxycontin is another pain med that comes to mind, as this is another pain medication that can be quite addicting. If you are using any of these particular pain meds, and find that you are relying on them more and more, then we suggest talking with your doctor immediately, and see if there are any different options for you.

We truly are creatures of habit so to speak…and these “habits” can develop quite quickly. Developing a tolerance threshold with pain killer medications could be possible, and before you know it, you will need more of the meds to achieve the desired results. Again, proceed with caution here. Talk with your doctor. The last thing you want is to be hooked on these type of meds. You deserve the best in Gods eyes, so be careful.

We hope that whatever your struggles might be, that you include God in coping with those Struggles. It really is difficult to navigate this life alone, or relying on other human beings. Sometimes only a true loving God can help us cope with the “mountains” of life, and lead us to the other side coming out a healthier and happier person.

We recommending getting an easy to read bible, and incorporate it into your daily life by reading life changing scriptures. God Bless…and have a great week….

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Addictions And Stress

Greetings all from Christian Help For Addiction Online

Sometimes when we are under stress (relationship problems, money problems, health problems, kid problems, school problems, work problems, ) did I leave anything out, we tend to self-medicate. Self medicating can be dangerous, especially with such items as alcohol and drugs. What some people really need help with is healthy ways of relieving and coping with the stress in their lives.

What has been working for me lately is an exercise program. With the weather getting nicer I started to walk and walk and walk. Wow, what a stress buster. It seems the faster I walk, the more my head clears, and I can re-focus on the moment, and just leave those issues behind.

Now granted, exercise isn’t for everybody, so make sure you check with your doctor prior to beginning an exercise program, but if he gives you the “okay” then jump in. Life is stressful, and stimulating those good hormones by exercising will help us in coping with stress.

Meditation and prayer is another method that I use for coping with stress. Just refocusing your thoughts on God, and the promises that he has made (Hebrews 13) is therapeutic as well. Try reading the book of Psalms. It will tell the story of a mighty King named David, who relied on God for everything.

What I really like about that book in the bible is how the mighties King in the land fell short. He had an affair with a married woman, which led to death and an unplanned child etc etc. Incredible drama. But the good news is that our God isn’t a “condemning God” he is a forgiving God. David repented, changed his behavior and turned back to God who forgives us and allows us to move forward with our lives.

The good news is that your are “forgiven” Other people might not forgive you, but that’s ok, as long as you are forgiven in God’s eyes, and you have changed that sinful behavior.  Then you are on the road to spiritual recovery.  Read the bible, it does provide great insight.

Stay well..

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