Friends-We Use That Term Loosely

It’s interesting to hear people tell you how many “friends” they have. True, we as humans enjoy being surrounded by others who share the same common interests, but be careful who you label as a friend.

It’s easy for other people to be attracted to you when you have money, health and are essentially “drama” free. But watch what happens to these so called “friends” when your money runs out, your health deteriorates, or your life turns into shambles, and you need others for help to get through some difficult times.  It is during those difficult times, you will be able to determine who  your friends really are.

Now don’t get me wrong, there are some people that just run from stress and can’t cope with it in their own lives let alone yours. These people shouldn’t be condemned, but just seen for who they are. True, there are some so called “friends” that will take advantage of you, but for the most part, people just struggle with handling issues, especially when it involves others.

If you are struggling with an addiction, then you have to be extra “vigilant” with whom you call “friends” Let’s face it, someone caught in a vicious cycle of addiction might not be thinking to clearly, and might not have your best interests at heart.

If you are in recovery and hanging around some “friends” who are actively using, you are in dangerous territory.  Put these friends on the back burner until they get their lives together. Just tell them you still respect them as a person, but the temptation is far to great when being around them. If they don’t understand that, then you really have to question if they are a friend.

So be careful with the term “friend” A true friend will stand by you no matter what, and has only “your best interests” in mind. They are there for you when you are healthy and when you are sick. If they get the call at 3 in the morning  that you need help, they are there for you. They are supportive and quick to criticize you if you are engaging in “risky” behavior, (drinking/drugging) as a true friend should be concerned about your well-being.

Here at Christian Help For Addiction Online we pray that you are becoming stronger each and every day. We hope that you are actively seeking “God” by praying and reading your bible daily. Christ is the best friend you will ever have, as he is there 24/7 365 days a year, hearing your needs. I always tell folks to read the book of Psalms when they are struggling as it can be quite comforting.  Stay well, and God Bless…

These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.
John 16:33 (KJV)

Romans 8:38-39 #9 Bible Verse on Depression

For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord