My buddy was telling me how he thinks he’s getting hooked to his laptop computer and/or the Internet….he was saying…”I don’t know, I use to go on to check some financial news and then surf the web for about 15 minutes, but now I’m stuck on facebook for hours at a time and then, still surfing for a couple more…before you know it, it’s like 4-5 hours on the computer”

Years ago I would have thought wow….but I actually find myself spending m0re and more time in cyberspace then I use to years ago…..

Where it starts to get sticky is when your “cyberspace” time….compromises other things in your life.  What I mean by that is let’s say that you’re married with kids, and it’s a weekend, and the family wants to do something together (that’s a good thing) but we blow them off saying I “just have to check a few thing on the web first”….next thing you know….you lost a coupe hours of good quality time…

The compromise could be in the way of spending less time with family and friends….neglecting school work…..isolating yourself from life’s pleasures…and the list goes on and on..

Remember…we are creatures of habit….and for some…habits form quite easily. Before you know it, your innocent web surfing from years ago has actually turned into a “cyberspace habit”  and possibly an “Internet addiction” in extreme cases…

Try to discipline yourself…set aside a set period of time each day or night that you will do your web thing…..and then walk away from the computer….if you find yourself struggling to walk away….you might need some professional intervention….

Life is short…and we don’t want to spend the majority of it in “cyberspace”  We should be spending time with people we enjoy….go for a walk…walk your neighbors dog….call a friend….read a few bible verses….

Just be careful you don’t fall into “another habit trap”….they really do develop quickly and before you know it….your struggling to break free…

Here at Christian Help For Addiction Online, we pray that your life is ever improving, and that you are getting closer to God by praying more and reading the bible. God can really make a difference in your life if you give him a try….stay Well

But out God knows out weaknesses and knows that we are not perfect.  He is quick to forgive, and help steer us back on the right path.

Here is a great excer[t from  Dr. Charles Stanley. He is on the television on Sundays.  Try to watch him this Sunday.

The church I grew up in could sum up much of its theology in one statement: “Thou shalt not . . .” I don’t recall hearing about a Father’s love or how to live the Christian life. What I learned was that a wrathful God would punish me if I didn’t follow all the rules. And there seemed to be rules for everything—including what I could read, what I could wear, and what I could do.

As a teenage boy, I spent a lot of time begging the Lord to forgive me for one foolish thing or another. And I carried a constant weight of guilt and worry around with me everywhere I went. I just couldn’t seem to be good enough. In truth, the rules were a burden to me, and since I thought God made them, He was a burden too.

In my young adult years, I learned that my perception of God was wrong. He is gracious and loving. The commandments that He gave were designed to keep us
safe and free from shame. But even when we do mess up, there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ (Rom. 8:1). That means He forgives our sin and “wipes out . . . transgressions,” remembering them no more (Is. 43:25). We may have to live with consequences but never with the weight of guilt.

God is not a burden. He is the burden-bearer (Ps. 68:19), who placed our sins on Jesus Christ, thereby relieving us of that heaviness. Don’t keep staggering under the load of guilt. Lay it down before a loving, gracious Lord who offers a yoke that is easy and light (Matt. 11:30).

We hope you are moving forward with your walk with God, and we comtinue to pray for all our readers. God Bless.

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But then the storms of life hit us again, just like a 30 foot wave hitting a boat. These storms could come in the loss of a job or loss of a family member. We could be under stress in our relationships, and at turmoil with individuals that we call “friends”

Anyway you look at it, there will be good and bad times. It’s easy to turn to God and hit our knees when things are going bad. Sometimes there is nobody else there but him, as those so called “friends” are in the wind so to speak. We cry out for help and guidance, and it truly seems that God gives us only what we can bear.

But how about the good times,when things are going good? Do we take some time out to thank God for those quiet times, and give him credit for them. God desires to have fellowship with us (through prayer), in the good times and the bad.

So the next time there seems to be a pause in the “drama” in your life or the people around you, give thanks to God. My favorite prayer is…”thank you Lord for another day. I am walking in peace today thanks to you. I know there will be some tough times ahead, but if I stick by your side by continually praying and talking to you through prayer, I know we can get through anything together”….

So that’s it. Keep praying and thanking.  God knows you’re there, he created you in his image. Do you really think that he doesn’t love you? Never!….Until next time….stay well and God Bless….

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During these difficult times, we sometimes “self medicate” with drugs or alcohol to ease the pain that loneliness brings. It becomes a vicious cycle, as our companion for life is then found in a bottle or other means.  An individual I knew for many years suddenly fell into the grips of loneliness. Detaching from his friends and family he started living an isolated life. Depression set in, and you could pretty much write the end of the story.

Don’t let yourself fall into that the trap of loneliness. Develop a resource of faithful, healthy friends, and lean on them in difficult times. If you don’t know where to look for such people, then try your local church one Sunday. Mingle after the service, and start throwing your name around. After a few weeks of attending, you should start to develop a few “Godly” contacts, that will be a wonderful resource.

Remember, even in painful circumstances, three truths are certain: Jesus stands with us; He strengthens us for whatever task God wants us to accomplish; and He will enable us to fulfill God’s purpose till our final breath. Be comforted and encouraged by these promises of the living Lord. God Bless…

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So often we look at externals to prove to ourselves and others that we’re valuable. Or we think, If only I were better-looking, richer, or smarter, I would be accepted and esteemed. It’s not wise to let others’ opinions and standards determine our feelings about ourselves; the only accurate assessment of our worth comes from looking into the eyes of the One who loved us enough to die in our place.

Christ loves us just the way we are, whether we are rich or poor, addicted or not. We don’t have to impress others, or be influenced by their dysfunctional behavior. Read your bible this week. Start with the book of Psalms. It will help give you guidance and strength in difficult times. God bless…

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A call from my neighbor the other night revealed that his brother-in-law was admitted into a drug rehab facility for treatment. I was a bit shocked, as I knew the guy, and he was what appeared to be a pretty “high functioning” individual. He held a good job and had a wife and a young child. Initially I was thinking the “hard stuff”, maybe even Heroin, but when I asked further, I found out he was hooked on “pain killer” medication, specifically…”Vicodin”

Initially I thought how did that happen, but now i realize that more  and more people are getting hooked with these type of prescription meds. Oxycontin is another pain med that comes to mind, as this is another pain medication that can be quite addicting. If you are using any of these particular pain meds, and find that you are relying on them more and more, then we suggest talking with your doctor immediately, and see if there are any different options for you.

We truly are creatures of habit so to speak…and these “habits” can develop quite quickly. Developing a tolerance threshold with pain killer medications could be possible, and before you know it, you will need more of the meds to achieve the desired results. Again, proceed with caution here. Talk with your doctor. The last thing you want is to be hooked on these type of meds. You deserve the best in Gods eyes, so be careful.

We hope that whatever your struggles might be, that you include God in coping with those Struggles. It really is difficult to navigate this life alone, or relying on other human beings. Sometimes only a true loving God can help us cope with the “mountains” of life, and lead us to the other side coming out a healthier and happier person.

We recommending getting an easy to read bible, and incorporate it into your daily life by reading life changing scriptures. God Bless…and have a great week….

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Actually that is really a great idea. Rather then sitting at home, go out and volunteer somewhere. A local soup kitchen, thrift store, wherever. I know what you might be thinking, that sure won’t pay the bills. I agree. But sometimes you can do a little “networking” and meet people who know somebody who is looking for help. You know what I mean.  Give and it is usually given back to you. It’s called the law of “Reciprocity”. Your act of kindness in helping others is usually returned.

But getting back on track, sometimes during these tough moments we want to “ease the pain” Escape from reality so to speak. That escape can be accomplished by alcohol or drugs, including grass. You have to be real careful when you fall into that “defeatist” mentality and the “woe is me” thinking. That is Satan talking for sure. Like Christ said, and I always keep repeating it, “The thief comes to kill, steal and destroy your life”  Be on guard. The last thing you want to do is start developing a “habit” where you are relying on something to get you through the day.

Get out of the house. Stay occupied. Like I said, volunteer. keep your mind focused on healthy things. And most of all pray. Every day that you can get up and out of the bed is a victory. Thank God for that. There truly are people worse off in this world. When the “temptation” comes to self-medicate, change your surroundings quick. If you’re with so called “friends” get out of there. Leave and go for a walk.

If you are home alone. get out of there as well. If it’s the middle of the night, then open the bible and start reading the book of Psalms. God will reveal himself to you for sure, and re-direct that stinking thinking. You are special. You are a creature that was made by the almighty God. He loves you and wants to help us navigate “This Life”. So lean on him, its never too late.

From all of us here at Christian Help For Addiction Online we continue to pray for you and know that God will eventually intervene in your struggles.

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I appreciate my mother so much for being a “Godly” mother. How she would pray at night for safety and guidance for all of us, and how she lived a life of faith, always keeping God first in her life. We are lucky when we have good role models, it truly rubs off.

If your mother is still with you then be thankful. Make sure you tell her how much you love her and appreciate all the things she has done. Give her a hug, and pray with her. If you have unresolved issues with your mother, then out them aside. Life is too short, and Satan would love nothing more then to see you at odds with your mother. As Christ said..”the thief comes to kill, steal and destroy” Swallow your pride and put a leash on your ego. Give your mom a call and tell her how much you love her.

For new and current mothers today we continue to pray for you. This world seems to be deteriorating a a quick pace, (at least morally). If you truly want the world to change the realize it starts with you and your kids. We have to be a positive role model for them. Don’t leave it to the teachers or anybody else. They have their own short comings, and you might not want your kids looking up to them.

Let them see that you are a woman of God. That there is a G0d that they can pray to for guidance and direction. Children need this hope. With schools today pushing evolution more and more, they are just squeezing God out of the equation. Again like Christ said, “the thief comes to kill, steal and destroy”.

We hope you have a wonderful mothers day. If your mom is in the hands of God then say a quick prayer. Something like, “Dear lord, Give mom a hug, we miss her so much and tell her we love her”   Hey don’t worry. Christ promised that all believers will be together again. So Believe!

Until next time stay well and God Bless> 

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